We are more similar that I realized..... Got all set to do a band practise with the new kit and then a certain bass player didn't bring her part of the kit. Result rather crunchy John who shouldn't be out in public biting said bass players head off rather unnecessarily...

Unmet expectations = crunchy John...

Sorry to hear you are of a similar persuasion.

Take care and I hope you get to play some street hockey soon.